Parenting Upward

Parenting Upward is a free online magazine for adults navigating life with aging parents — driving and keys, assisted living and memory care, caregiving, finances and legal planning, and basic Medicare questions. We're a resource, not a care provider ourselves.

Start the conversation early and calmly, focus on specific safety concerns rather than general complaints, and offer concrete alternatives (rides, delivery services, public transit) before the conversation becomes urgent. A doctor or occupational therapist can also help assess driving ability objectively.

Common signs include unsafe conditions at home, missed medications, weight loss, isolation, or a diagnosis like dementia that's progressing — there's no single right moment, and it's worth touring communities and talking with a geriatric care manager before a crisis forces a fast decision.

Build in regular respite, even briefly and imperfectly; accept help when it's offered; and connect with other caregivers who understand what you're carrying. Burnout is common and doesn't mean you're failing — it means you need support too.

No. Parenting Upward is an independent online magazine. It is not Medicare.gov, CMS, or any government agency, and is not affiliated with or endorsed by the U.S. government or the federal Medicare program.

Call 1-800-MEDIGAP to speak with someone about Medicare supplement insurance questions for yourself or a parent.

No. Parenting Upward provides general educational information only — never legal, financial, tax or medical advice. Always confirm decisions about care, legal documents and finances with your own licensed professionals.